1¡¢    I learned my first lesson at a meeting. As we sat around the table I heard Meg, who was    1    a recent operation, talking to Judith, the manager of our project. “Thank you so much for    2    my daughters to their dance lessons last week.” Judith said, “It was nothing.”
    Knowing how    3    Judith’s schedule was, I found her driving Meg’s children to lessons unbelievably    4    . I was about to say more about this when Donna, another colleague, entered the room    5    . She apologized for being late, saying she just hosted a lunch for her friends who were over seventy. “ That is so nice of you,” I said,    6    how busy she was, how she didn’t like to cook and clean. “Oh,” she said, waving her hand, “It was nothing.”    7    , I could still tell the    8    in her voice. She did gain a sense of satisfaction from the entertainment offered to her friends.